Remember that there will almost always be somebody who adores everything about you and says only nice things about you, and someone who doesn't like everything about you and has almost nothing nice to say about you. You’ll never be perfect. but it doesn't matter as nobody is !
Nip it In the Bud
Sometimes people are unaware of just how offensive or hurtful something they’ve said or done really is. You may be holding a grudge towards someone who really meant no harm. The only way to be sure is to talk with that person to let them know how you’re feeling .Not a shouting match, but a calm conversation where both of you are willing to listen to each other. You’d be surprised what a calm conversation can fix.
While it is important for us to pray for guidance and a forgiving heart, The bible also says that we are to pray for those who persecute us. I know… when you’re hurting, praying for your persecutor is the last thing you feel like doing. Don’t knock it till you try it. It's the way to freedom!
Sometimes we have to learn to accept an apology we never got and Forgive them . Life can be so complicated without trying to figure out why one person is always putting you down, always trying to contradict you, always taking cheap shots at you or always saying and doing things to hurt you. Move into a place of forgiveness. Forgiveness is not about the other person; it’s about you giving yourself the permission to emotionally move on from someone who has hurt you and taking back your happiness.