We have all dealt with two-faced people at one time or another -- those people who smile in your face and act like a good friend.They pretend to be your friend, only to try to use you, or to spread lies and gossip about you behind your back. The two-faced person wants to obtain something from you, but is too jealous to get it for themselves. The thing they want from you may vary, but the motivation won't -- they have chosen deception in order to get it. They behave in a manner that is not Godly, but that is deceitful, and self-serving. Learn to detect the signs of two-faced behavior as soon as possible. The longer a backstabber is free to spread their lies, the harder it will be to stop them and prevent an injured reputation. . Trust your gut -- if you believe that someone is behaving in two-faced conduct toward you, look for facts to back up your feelings.
Tips to cope with the two face individual : Try not to take the nasty actions or words of the two-faced individual personally. When someone gossips about you behind your back, it's a reflection of their lowly nature, and not a reflection upon you. And despite all of your actions to the contrary, you cannot change the personality of the conniving backstabber. The only thing you can do is to try to make sure that they pick on someone else the next time they display their two-faced personality. Acknowledge that you are dealing with someone false and dishonest. Resist the temptation to play the gossip at his/her own game. Avoid the nasty person that has been talking negatively about you Be civil towards the person that said bad things about you if you have to be in their company. Avoid divulging any personal or sensitive information.